Exciting Ways to be More Interesting
So you’re having trouble meeting women. You’re certainly not alone. While that may be a comforting thought to a certain extent – i.e. I’m not a total loser then – it also means that you’ve got some competition out there. You’ve got to find a way to set yourself apart from every other lonely guy out there if you’re really going to have a shot at meeting and getting to know a woman.
How to Be Memorable
Sure a hot guy is going to stand out in a woman’s mind. But to be honest, women can look at hot guys anytime they want to – on TV, in magazines, or even just walking down the street. Even the hottest guy out there isn’t much more than eye candy, though, if nothing comes out when they open their mouth.
If you really want to make a good impression on a woman, or really any impression for that matter, you need to have something of substance to contribute to the conversation. Telling the same tired old stories about high school sports or college shenanigans might be the easiest way to go, but it’s not going to help you stand out from the crowd.
What you really need is to be able to share something about yourself that will make the woman stop and take a closer look at you (but not in a creepy way, of course). Basically, you have to be interesting.
Acquiring an Interest
So how do you magically transform yourself into a more interesting person? There are several ways, really, but one is to simply pick up a new hobby or social activity. Take a class, join a book club, volunteer at the local homeless shelter. That way when you’re talking to a woman, you’ll actually have something interesting to tell her about yourself.
And just when you thought it couldn’t get better – these types of activities are actually a great way to meet women too. They provide instant context, making conversations easier to start and giving the impression that you already have a lot in common.
They also make it easier to draw out the introduction process because you’ll have a guaranteed number of group interactions. This can take a little of the pressure off because you’ll have more than one shot at making that great and lasting impression. Just don’t put off making your move for too long or you could very easily miss your chance.